A well built 12th grade boy and a mediocre built 5th grade boy got into a quarrel which later turned out to be a fight. The 12th grade boy is hurting 5th grade boy badly while the entire school is watching but no one came to help the 5th grade boy.
The 12th grade boy being an influential person in the school, the school management couldn't take any action either. Some students didn't even support anyone while some just cheered the 5th grade boy verbally saying that they are there for him in this fight.
Inbetween the 5th grade boy kept calling other kids for help. Meanwhile there is a 10th grade boy with a kind heart in the whole school. This time the 5th grade boy decided to ask this kind hearted 10th grade boy for support. The 5th grade boy pleaded the 10th grade boy to help. But the 10th grade boy is confused whether to help him or not, knowing the fact that if he offered to help the 5th grade boy, he might also get hurt.
Now if you are the parent of this kind hearted 10th grade boy, what would you advice him?
1. Ask him to stay neutral and away from fight. Afterall it's not his fight, why to interfere and get hurt in others fight. Tell him that when even other 12th grade kids are scared to fight him, why you should fight.
2. Ask him to fight alongside the 5th grade boy as the 12th grade boy's activity is totally unfair. Tell him that it is always important to support and fight for the good cause regardless of whether we are winning or not in the end.
3. Ask him to advice or threaten the 12th grade boy saying he will no longer be his friend if he continues to fight with the 5th grade boy. But tell him not to get into the fight as fight is never a solution to any problem.
"தர்மத்தின் வாழ்வுதனை சூது கவ்வும், எனினும் தர்மமே வெல்லும்!!!"
Think!!!! Decide !!! Think Different !!!
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